Saturday, July 11, 2015

6- Dealing With Something New

First day, first year, first times. Can you still remember them? These are the hardest of days because coping up takes time. You barely know anyone except the people you have been with in the past years. Terrifying yet exciting. You need to observe, keep your five senses working and communicate. Being shy will lead you to nowhere but being friendless and alone all the time. You move to take risk and exert a special effort when it comes to making friends. When you are comfortable with the things around you, you can move more freely and more confidently without hesitations.
Adjusting is not only done in the first year but is rather continued till the last year in school. You have to cope up with different people again and again and as time passes by, you will be used to this kind of setting. Making new friends, sharing new memories that will be cherished forever, part-taking to every activity and also making yourself worth remembering. As I look back, I also remember the time where everyone seems so inappropriate to be with and you should take caution whenever you are near them because you have a sudden feeling that makes you uncomfortable. You have to do whatever your heart and mind tells you to but always keep in mind they should satisfy each other. The top of all that would be remembered is simply being just yourself.  Nothing is wrong in embracing who you are. There is no other people you-er than you and you don't have to change yourself just to fit in. In the end, people who really understands you and who really wants to be with you will make a way to be around you.

With this in mind, you are bound to make an unforgettable relationship with the new people around you- and it will be really hard to part ways because you made a great team together once.


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